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28-Feb-2017 15:10

I'd talk to women about my hobbies and what I thought was interesting, but I never seemed to get anywhere.When I was on a date, I'd ask a bunch of questions - because I'm supposed to show interest in her in some way.As if you're entire value as a man is based on a skill you've never been taught.Just like the example I just gave you of the guitar style I was trying to find, there are TONS of "systems" and outer game techniques out there that work the same way." Then she rolled her eyes and shook her head, and I felt that sinking sensation in the pit of my stomach as my confidence crashed and burned. The one thing that women need to trust you and give themselves to you is something that most guys completely miss.It's a little word that starts with an "A" and ends in "C." I'll explain this word to you right now...My game was actually WORSE when I was using pickup techniques than when I was just being "myself." I've heard from a lot of guys that picked up a copy of the book "The Game" telling me that none of the lines and openers they got from it work anymore because ALL the guys are using these techniques. These routines and techniques that guys teach on TV reality shows are just to give you of the type of things that women find interesting, and the word-for-word routines are not meant to be parroted to every woman you see. You can learn to play a Led Zeppelin tune or two if you want, and you'll sound like Jimmy Page. And that's how using routines and lines can actually cripple your success with women, because you are undermining your belief and confidence in yourself by using borrowed words.

Here's something you might not know: If you try to be someone you're not by borrowing someone else's stories or showing off a lifestyle you haven't experienced, to every person you meet.

After a while I started being a little "flexible" with the truth.

I found myself purposefully hiding certain facts and even exaggerating things about me to impress her, because I figured she would find me more attractive up front.

But I'll bet you've figured this out on your own, haven't you?

I used to play a lot of "pickup games" with women, but then I finally realized that the only women that are interested in all these fake routines and games are the 22-year-old drunk party girls.

Here's something you might not know: If you try to be someone you're not by borrowing someone else's stories or showing off a lifestyle you haven't experienced, to every person you meet.

After a while I started being a little "flexible" with the truth.

I found myself purposefully hiding certain facts and even exaggerating things about me to impress her, because I figured she would find me more attractive up front.

But I'll bet you've figured this out on your own, haven't you?

I used to play a lot of "pickup games" with women, but then I finally realized that the only women that are interested in all these fake routines and games are the 22-year-old drunk party girls.

Women have this exact same specialized brain wiring, but it's even more effective at figuring out men.